Fantasy, Reality and Destiny!
I shamelessly admit that I love to dream both day and night but I do know the difference between reality and fantasy, of what I can or cannot have…or do I…I wonder sometimes? Sometimes, I believe too much in the idea of wanting something really bad that I feel that if I just focus my thoughts on it by thinking positive that I might just get it. There is nothing wrong with that school of thought although sometimes the line between reality and fantasy becomes too blurry. I wonder then, if I should stop dreaming and I say to myself…why? Why should I stop dreaming? I know that it is a fantasy and there is a chance that it will never become a reality but what if it could? Isn’t it better to believe that a fantasy could become a reality rather than not believing it at all?
I like to believe that I am a very optimistic person and that anything and everything is possible if you try real hard unless of course, it is not in your destiny. In that case, atleast you don’t have the regret of not trying and not attempting to make an effort to change your destiny…who knows, if the guy upstairs is impressed…he might just grant me that fantasy that I really want to be my reality….oh yeah, I am a religious person although not an orthodox or fanatic one but rather more spiritual who believes in destiny.
So, going back to the destiny thing…I truly believe that everyone has a destiny and ultimately that is what happens but that does not mean that we just sit in one place and twiddle our thumbs waiting for it to happen. It will still happen if the effort is made to make it happen. Also, the effort is more important as compared to achieving that destiny because that effort is our journey that teaches us whether or not that fantasy can become a reality and who knows it just might?
With that belief, I continue to dream and enjoy my fantasies hoping to transform them into realities but understanding that even if they don’t become realities that they were probably not meant to and there is something else out there that is even better and just waiting to happen!
